While you are medication, you are unable to hear the whole truth. You are unable to fully dive into the cause and into healing with HOPE therapy or any other tool because you cant go deep enough. The cause of the problem is still there. You may have convinced yourself or the drug did it for you that it is all better and there is no cause. This is just temporary. You are consciously walking around happy (falsely). The cause is still there.
(Medication) When you get into your hells, your brain is required to quickly recover from the change in brain chemistry. I have found when working with people that are on medication. I have to do my best to work around the medicine. Sometimes the brain becomes so dependent on the medication that you would rather keep your hells because the brain has to have that “first” step in order to have the medicine. Without the first step of hells, no medicine is required and your brain becomes addicted to the medicine and the pattern of strategy to keep it.
When we produce, Oxytocin we are happy. When we get hugs, requirement of 8 a day, it produces us to make natural oxytocin. People who do studies, have found out if you make too much of the oxytocin then it leaves you vulnerable to prey. You overly trust. You can get conned or scammed so much more easily, which means you trust way too much and do not have the necessary files to help you instinctively take care of yourself. When you are not using it, you will notice that you have set up strategies so you dont go there again. You also set it up so you can go there again because that was your pattern of strategy before the medicine. You get so focused it becomes semantics. You trained yourself to find a flaw, so the ahhhh of pain that you are avoiding doesnt come back. Bad thing, because the focus is on that, it makes you have a pain that you can handle but dont really want and it hurts the relationships in your life, which then creates you to have repeated unresolved stories. As long as you are willing to visit this one, then you dont have to be “Willing” to visit the original pain. It makes for a great story or movie of your life. What you are “willing” to go through Vs what you are not willing.
It is great to be happy but I know that I would rather seek true happiness so I dont repeat the hells of trust issues. Love ya. Thanks for sharing.